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Post by EC on Jul 15, 2011 18:52:44 GMT -6
Marriage is for some people and not for others. i'm an other.
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Post by freako on Jul 15, 2011 21:35:16 GMT -6
oh dear....sorry
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Post by EC on Jul 16, 2011 21:33:47 GMT -6
Its not working very well. I'm constantly pissed or stressed. I have no peace at the moment. I really need a break. I havent had an overnight sitter since the weekend I got married. I havent had a sitter for a few hours in 2 months. we NEVER get time alone together. when we do, Rylie wakes up. Its very stressful. plus, he slleps alot and wont help around the house at all. he only helps with Rylie. that is all.
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Post by freako on Jul 16, 2011 23:10:00 GMT -6
Sorry you're so stressed. Wish there was something I could say to help make it better.
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Post by EC on Jul 17, 2011 13:02:45 GMT -6
Lol. I will be fine (or I will hurt him). I'm a strong woman with a decent head on my shoulders. I can make it through anything. lol
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Post by freako on Jul 17, 2011 18:43:37 GMT -6
That's good to hear! I know how you feel though. There are days where I'd like to strangle my husband for not doing anything, lol. I guess it's what their mother's "didn't" teach them....how to clean up after themselves lol.
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Post by rossmosis on Jul 17, 2011 21:12:35 GMT -6
I can vouch for the laziness thing
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Post by EC on Jul 19, 2011 12:21:50 GMT -6
Its one thing to be lazy, its another to take 5 days to take out 3 bags of trash. he just knows i will get pissed and do it myself cos I dont want the house to smell bad.
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Post by SoS on Jul 20, 2011 2:54:13 GMT -6
he annoys you? ok..... but are there things you do that annoy him?
we are all annoying in our own ways...... no-one is perfect (not even me!) lol
so is it just that..... or is it more?
my nephew has it all..... a nice home, a pretty fiance, 3 gorgeous kids..... but he takes them all for granted. he doesnt help around the house, he doesnt help with the kids, he shows her no attention..... he puts his friends and his xbox way before them.
its not that he doesn't love them, its just that he takes it all for granted.
I was married, had it all.... but i lost it all..... so i guess i dont take things for granted anymore. It took me ages to find happiness again...... but i know i cant take it all for granted, so i make the most of everyday.... i do as much as i can to make them happy.....
i guess age and experience taught me that....... but some people are just nieve and selfish.
Im a big believer in karma.
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Post by EC on Jul 20, 2011 9:59:33 GMT -6
He over medicates himself daily and sleeps at least 12 to 15 hours a day. we fight alot. hes got a problem and wont admit it.
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Post by SoS on Jul 21, 2011 15:34:59 GMT -6
well its not for me to give advice as i dont know him, but if your not happy, the kids wont be happy.... and doing nothing solves nothing.
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Post by EC on Jul 22, 2011 15:06:29 GMT -6
I'm in a spot that something is going to make me or break me. lol
Either way, I will be fine.
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Post by SoS on Jul 23, 2011 3:16:39 GMT -6
*hug*
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Post by EC on Jul 23, 2011 3:17:54 GMT -6
Awe. thank you. lol
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Post by SoS on Jul 23, 2011 4:18:09 GMT -6
anytime
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